It's me again!!!! I happen to love my sundays!!! Usually it's my catch-up day since the busy week work and trying to get the house project done. But it's also just a little less hectic since we don't go anywhere and don't spend any money on Sunday's.
Anyways! I also seem to find this blog thing pretty relaxing! I should be doing some other more productive things! My house needs my attention, my business paperwork needs to be done, laundry could be started and a whole list of things. Also it will be there tomorrow and the next day so what is wrong with taking a few hours to watch your favorite show, type up a blog, garden, spend time with kids and family, or catching up with an old friend?? Your work will always be there and everyone needs some time to just chill!! So I dare whoever is reading this to start a timer for 60 to 90 minutes and do something that that you really enjoy!!! RELAX AND ENJOY LIFE a little bit!!!
This brings up another topic I throughly believe in. Surround yourself with positive/like minded people. This quote means so much to me. I for one have realized if I'm around a person who thinks negative all the time about every topic, I tend to have the same mindset. So I try so hard to always think of the positive in every situation. Yes, granted there are certain situations that is almost next to impossible to find a positive, but you have to think and try as hard as you can to find the positive.
I also noticed if I think positive I have a much more positive outlook on the rest of my day, my family and friends and my own self expectations. So like earlier when I said I "should be doing some other more productive things!" That is a very true and valid point, but if I do not take some time for myself, I'm just going to end up the biggest crab-butt ever, which means my husband will most likely get the brunt of it. Which is not what he is there for.
Which brings me to my next point. My husband is supposed to be there to support me, love me and be by my side through anything and everything. Although sometimes he is just as much a child as our children, I wouldn't change it for the world. When we first got married (yes not very long ago-6 years) I wanted nothing more than to take care of him, whether he was sick, hungry, tired, had sore muscles, needed a haircut, wanted snacks for work or wanted his lunch packed before he left in the mornings. I was up for it and would do anything for him. It's funny how when you live with someone and grow with them how things change. Kids also change things, because unlike my husband kids are very dependent on someone to help them. Where my husband is very capable of doing almost everything for himself. So the positive would be when I started to do all the things l really did WANT to and I did ENJOY it, and he knew that I loved doing all those things. So he let's me do them, thinking I still love doing it, which I don't mind but I also have two little ones that really need my help. I do appreciate that he let's me do it all because he knew how much I liked doing it, and it IS getting easier as my kids get older and do not need me as much as they used to, see a light at the end of the tunnel. My oldest starts school in a few days and I miss him needing me but then again I love watching him grow up and become his own little person!! I also need to work much harder on treating my husband better! Since starting to work more hours every week, the house project, kids and just the everyday stress of life, I think I might of lost who I was when we got married, and that's not fair to him. I should NOT and will NOT take it out on him anymore, it's not his fault. So my goal this week is to no matter how hard each day is, to give him the best of me, not whats left of me at the end of the day!!
Well this is all for today!! Hope you all have a great Labor Day weekend!! Thanks for reading!
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